How to Survive and Start to Thrive Again
Surviving Today’s Trauma This week many people have reached out to me asking HOW we do this. How do we navigate the continued violence, hate, rage, fascism and disconnection that […]
Surrender is Harder for Men
by Jenny Jnani Hale In spiritual circles, it’s fashionable to exhort women to “surrender.” The neo-Tantrics will explain that expanded orgasms lie just the other side of surrender, and that [...]
Why Doctors Can’t Heal You
Warning: This is an opinion filled writing – even a bit of a rant. I mean no offense to doctors, healers and those who devote their lives in service of […]
Why Have Relationships, Anyway?
When I coach couples and individuals about relationships, the question, “why have relationships?” comes up in two very different contexts. Why Have Relationships At All? The first context is one [...]
What is an Identity?
In my work, both personal and professional, I spend a lot of energy becoming aware of identities, both my own and supporting those I work with in uncovering theirs. But […]
The Joy and Freedom of 59 Days of Silence
For all those on the Path of Awakening, may we all be inspired to surrender. These days when we think of Tantra, we think of experimenting with sound, movement and […]
The Surprising Power of a Broken Heart
The last time you had a broken heart, did you spend a lot of energy wishing it hadn’t happened? Trying to fix it? We often view having a broken heart […]
It Exists: The Tantric Quickie
Have you been thinking that Tantric sex means slow sex? Slow sex is delicious. It helps us become more aware and attentive to all the sensations, obvious and subtle, that […]
So What the Heck is Unconditional Love?
I was raised saying, “I love you” to my friends, family, and intimate partners. And while this phrase was freely given as a child, as I grew up I developed […]