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by Jenny Jnani Hale In spiritual circles, it’s fashionable to exhort women to “surrender.” The neo-Tantrics will explain that expanded orgasms lie just the other side of surrender, and that [...]

Warning: This is an opinion filled writing – even a bit of a rant. I mean no offense to doctors, healers and those who devote their lives in service of others. “My doctor has no idea what’s going [...]

When I coach couples and individuals about relationships, the question, “why have relationships?” comes up in two very different contexts. Why Have Relationships At All? The first context is one [...]

In my work, both personal and professional, I spend a lot of energy becoming aware of identities, both my own and supporting those I work with in uncovering theirs. But what is an identity? [...]

For all those on the Path of Awakening, may we all be inspired to surrender. These days when we think of Tantra, we think of experimenting with sound, movement and sex, but the path of Tantra as [...]

The last time you had a broken heart, did you spend a lot of energy wishing it hadn’t happened? Trying to fix it? We often view having a broken heart as being a victim, whether someone else broke [...]

Have you been thinking that Tantric sex means slow sex? Slow sex is delicious. It helps us become more aware and attentive to all the sensations, obvious and subtle, that we exchange with another [...]

I was raised saying, “I love you” to my friends, family, and intimate partners. And while this phrase was freely given as a child, as I grew up I developed a need to know I was going to hear it [...]

When I was 18, I experienced something I thought at the time was terrifyingly embarrassing. I was in the car with my boyfriend and decided we needed to find a secluded place to touch each other [...]

Oh, the tangled webs we weave when we pretend to not have expectations. Talk about setting yourself up for failure. It’s a funny thing, really, to walk into a long-anticipated connection with an [...]