Why Have Relationships, Anyway?
When I coach couples and individuals about relationships, the question, “why have relationships?” comes up in two very different contexts. Why Have Relationships At All? The first context is one [...]
Mindful (S)expectations
Oh, the tangled webs we weave when we pretend to not have expectations. Talk about setting yourself up for failure. It’s a funny thing, really, to walk into a long-anticipated […]
Jealousy in Polyamory
If you practice nonmonogamy, you might have already been through the new and shiny phenomenon, where you or a partner meets someone new and it awakens the fun, unpredictable New Relationship […]
By bwbhadm
Posted Are you loving fearlessly?
My New Year’s intention for 2016 was two-fold: 1) Live fully empowered in each moment, and 2) Love fearlessly. Well, when that’s what you’re putting out, take a guess what you’ll be getting back. [...]
Ready to Evolve
I have been anticipating this post for a very long time. I am filled with joy to tell you about some of the most exciting decisions of my life. They […]
Alone, Grateful and Confused
Normally at this time of year people send out a little wrap-up of their year in progress, things they’ve accomplished, trips taken, family milestones, and plans for the new year. […]
My Lifelong Fear of Being Still
As my partner, Circus, and I sail down the coast toward San Francisco, stopping at ports for a few nights here and there, the transition of being “gone” is a […]