The Surprising Power of a Broken Heart

The last time you had a broken heart, did you spend a lot of energy wishing it hadn’t happened? Trying to fix it? We often view having a broken heart as being a victim, whether someone else broke [...]

It Exists: The Tantric Quickie

Have you been thinking that Tantric sex means slow sex? Slow sex is delicious. It helps us become more aware and attentive to all the sensations, obvious and subtle, that we exchange with another [...]

So What the Heck is Unconditional Love?

I was raised saying, “I love you” to my friends, family, and intimate partners. And while this phrase was freely given as a child, as I grew up I developed a need to know I was going to hear it [...]

Mindful (S)expectations

Oh, the tangled webs we weave when we pretend to not have expectations. Talk about setting yourself up for failure. It’s a funny thing, really, to walk into a long-anticipated connection with an [...]

Delving into Polyamory

Last week I got to speak with Nikki Leigh who hosts a radio show called Ready for Love. We talking about lots of juicy details in polyamorous relationships. Here is the link to the full 1 hour [...]

Jealousy in Polyamory

If you practice nonmonogamy, you might have already been through the new and shiny phenomenon, where you or a partner meets someone new and it awakens the fun, unpredictable New Relationship [...]

Home is Where Your Family Is

My spiritual journey has been the most practical time of my life. And by practical, I mean that practically speaking this path of connecting to Spirit has made countless changes in my everyday [...]

Queer Tantra: A LGBT Approach to “Shiva Meets Shakti”

Polarity and sacred union are fundamental principles in Tantra. From the consciousness of oneness, or God, there comes the twoness, or duality. The two are lovingly named Shiva, the principle of [...]

Polyamory is Figureoutable

Read the whole article on I’m a newbie to the poly world. I’ve only been living in conscious non-monogamy for the last six years, more or less consciously depending on the year and [...]

Are you loving fearlessly?

My New Year’s intention for 2016 was two-fold: 1) Live fully empowered in each moment, and 2) Love fearlessly. Well, when that’s what you’re putting out, take a guess what you’ll be getting back. [...]